Oh lol, it was just prices I pulled out of the air (told them prices) but didn't end up doing that. Just sex.
Confession Thread v2
I'm genuinely worried that i might die a virgin, or even worse, without ever having kissed or even been intimate with one another. Im almost 22 yo now and i am far from confident that anything about that is going to change anytime soon. And for some strange reason im also not that confident of getting to live till i'm old.
I'm genuinely worried that i might die a virgin, or even worse, without ever having kissed or even been intimate with one another. Im almost 22 yo now and i am far from confident that anything about that is going to change anytime soon. And for some strange reason im also not that confident of getting to live till i'm old.
Have you tried Tinder? You're attractive so it should be easy for you. If not, we can go out when I'm there. I'll be your wingwoman and help you wheel in some girls. When my boyfriend was in Austin it worked for his coworker because the girl was more relaxed with me being around the two guys and I talked with her. :3
I do have tinder, but i barely use it. And when i do, i dont really take it seriously tbh. That being, i have only had a very limited amount of matches, and with the couple of matches thay i did manage to get, i never spoke even a word :/
I want to kick you lol, tinder makes it easy to talk to the opposite sex. I personally feel like it would probably help with your confidence too. You'll see what works and when it doesn't you'll see you have other girls to talk to anyway and try something else. You can do it! :D
eta: not saying to bang an easy slut from Tinder. I was saying it makes it easy to find girls to make connections with, sex later after a connection.
Tarzan thinks he isn't good looking and it's so fucking lame.
You're saying you're confident that you'll never be intimate with a girl, and that is your main issue. It all starts with a positive mindset. It doesn't just magically happen, either. It is something that requires actively making an effort to improve.
I agree with allison though. Start a conversation on tinder if you don't want to approach girls in person, and meet up for coffee, drinks, or food. Just talk and get used to chatting with the opposite sex, eventually you will realize they're just normal humans.
If you really want it to happen, it will! But now it almost seems like you don't want it to. If I was a girl or gay I would suck your dick so hard to get you out of your rut.
I'm genuinely worried that i might die a virgin, or even worse, without ever having kissed or even been intimate with one another. Im almost 22 yo now and i am far from confident that anything about that is going to change anytime soon. And for some strange reason im also not that confident of getting to live till i'm old.
I thought that until this current relationship. It may be the deep connection, but it seems like sex gets better the older you get (well until.... :|). You both are confident, you know what you like, what you want, what works, etc.
So yeah, losing your virginity is overrated and overhyped. But good sex aint. 
I turned 23 this month and I've only had sex with 2 women. Lost my virginity at 17 to someone 7 years older than me(25-26). Haven't had sex sober either. Nothing in the intimacy department for me. Frankly there are a lot of other things I need to be focusing on before trying to truly connect with anyone. My mindset atm isn't much different than yours, now that I think about it I haven't even been thinking about women lately. All in due time I guess.
I'm just saying, there's a difference between someone who can't get a girl and someone who hasn't ever tried. Granted all of this stuff is easier said than done, but still. Back in the day, the only way I ever could've gotten any is if i was physically pulled into a room and undressed by the other person. I simply wouldn't ever make a move and I didn't even know how to try. But as you work through it, it gets easier. You figure out what works and what doesn't (I think tk said something similar?) and proceed that way. It's a learning process and nobody has it all figured out right from the beginning. It's just that some people get it all figured out really early so by the time they get into high school they're pulling all kinds of tail. That obviously didn't happen to you, and it also didn't happen with me. I spent my high school and half of my college years figuring out what most other people figured out in elementary and middle school. Now I'm in WAY better shape when it comes to getting girls, I just got here a little late.
So you just gotta do the same thing. You of course know all of this intellectually, so it's simply a matter of overcoming the mental barriers and that part is 100% up to you.
I'm just saying, there's a difference between someone who can't get a girl and someone who hasn't ever tried.
he doesnt try because he doesnt want to find out. right now, sitting with having never tried is better than sitting with having failed
relates to my lack of life decisions, really. which is changing
I'm just saying, there's a difference between someone who can't get a girl and someone who hasn't ever tried.
he doesnt try because he doesnt want to find out. right now, sitting with having never tried is better than sitting with having failed
no it's not, at all. not trying or pursuing an opportunity for change is one of the most crippling things imaginable. So many people look back on things in their life that they regret, and most of them are things that they never even tried to do. I've failed all sorts of things in my life and i use it as fuel to push myself.